at least according to...
Chip #1:
one of our black neighbors. Honda Accord comes screaming around the corner inside our subdivision and in front or our house. Our kids and others (there are a lot in our 55 home neighborhood) are playing in the front yard and the street - common practice in our subdivision. We YELL at him to slow his ass down. At the time, we didn't know if he was a neighbor or someone cruising through our subdivision - which only has one way inout. We certainly didn't have time to see what race the driver was, but when he heard us he already knew that we were racists. He got out of the car YELLING at us that we would NEVER have yelled at him if he was white! Uh huh. Well, the good news is we seem to have straightened this one out. His wife, the more social one, we already knew and she is very nice. He and his wife showed up at a recent neighborhood party and we all made nice. He's a nice guy, but he seems very quiet (not talkative), somewhat intense and doesn't smile much - but not a bad guy.
Chip #2:
one of our white neighbors. I wrote a simple, factual, innocuous post to our neighborhood web site. Basically, someone from our community was complaining to the mayor about how the local public elementary school is driving our home prices down. This was NOT true: prices are not going down (although they may not be going up as fast as some other areas) and even if diversity is the cause of the price stagnation, the school has NOTHING to do with the diversity of our community (rather, it reflects that diversity). I posted about the complaint and basically summarized as well as copies some key facts from a letter written by the mayor to the community after she had discussions with the school principal and local community leaders. I did NOT include any of my personal thoughts on the matter other than that I thought I posed it in such a way as to dispel any negative concerns about the increasing diversity of our community. Well, it wasn't long before I got a reply (REPLY ALL, no less) from a "concerned" neighbor calling me out as a racist. I re-read my email to see what I missed and then politely replied to her (not REPLY ALL) that she should read the post again including the link I included. Another prompt REPLY ALL letting me know that she re-read it again (and again) and read the link and called the mayor and blah, blah, blah AND "I didn't call you a racist, I said your comments were". Well, I'm not sure I get that nuance! So this time I hit REPLY ALL and explained in quite a detailed fashion exactly what the email meant and that frankly if she still didn't get it that she could find a quarter and call someone else 'cuz I've had enough of this crap. It didn't take long for several neighbors to call or email me. It made me feel better that they were not able to figure out where our neighbor got the idea that the post was in any way racist. Whew! I was beginning to think I was nuts.
Chip #3:
Some Democrats say that to be Republican is to be racist. Since I vote mostly Republican, I guess I must be a racist. I do not get why Republicans get a bad name here. Is being against affirmative action racist? I think being for government sponsored race preferences is worse. Is not raising the minimum wage racist? Is a slow response to Katrina racist? Is welfare reform racist? If you answer yes to any of these, then I should introduce you to my friends chip #1 and chip #2. If the qualification for racist means that a policy affects more of one race than another, then all policies are by definition racist. Give me a break. I'm not saying all republicans are NOT racist - you've got those wack job neo-nazi freaks of course - but suggesting that the party is itself racist is a little silly. Of course, that doesn't stop leftist organizations like the NAACP and others from saying it over and over again.
Oh, I forgot a good one regarding "racist" policies - racial profiling. I'll have some insensitive comments on that one later.
Chip #4:
OK, this one doesn't include me directly, but this fellow is a former business partner of mine. He is Arab, but grew up in North America. He is still my friend, I like him and overall he is a good guy, but he takes any negative situation and calls it racism. He was in store the other day when the clerk, young black man, asked to see his ID even though his picture is on the back of his credit card. Well, my friend starts to get a little upset wondering why this "a-hole" is treating him like he's gonna blow something up. He explains to the manager the racist incident. He is very mad at the racism he has just endured. This is not an isolated incident. When he gets pulled over for speeding, the cop is racist. His in-laws like the other grandkids better, because they are racist. He hates his neighborhood, bunch of racists. I could go on. Fact of the matter is, this kind of thinking can make you bitter and it borders on the delusional. And he is not alone (take chip #1 for instance).
Speaking of that, if you haven't seen the movie Crash, you really ought to. Very good. Scary. Sad. Joyous.